I struggle to maintain some semblance of order and completion of projects , but we all know the real culprit . . . . me . I take on way more than what I can handle . If we went back and re-read everything I have written from start to finish , there is something that keeps repeating itself . . . . time .
Time changes everything . We never have enough of it and we are not aware of it's passage , but we crave it . Time changes our behavior . It can heal our broken hearts as well as our finding someone new to love . We can say goodbye to someone in death and welcome a newborn babe at the same time . We can be filled with sorrow now , but we know that in time , we will see another rainbow .
In Kubler-Ross’ model, she listed five stages of grief we
experience when someone we love dies . I believe this can
apply to all areas of our life .
1 . denial,
2 . anger,
3 . bargaining,
4 . depression,
5 . and acceptance.
All five are applicable to romance , health issues , work
relations , children and even marriage . We can go on and
the list would be endless . `
So , how does it all relate to me ? Well , at first , I believe I
can do it all . It just requires a little organizational skill ,
another word for it , denial .
Then I become angry , because I have to do everything and
no one helps me . If everyone would just do their part , I
wouldn't be so behind .
Which leads to my bargaining with God . Maybe the lights
will go out at work and we will be sent home and I can finish
this on time . Or maybe God will see that I'm tired and it will
be a very slow day at work and I can come home early . What
do you think God ?
None of the above works , so I become depressed , because I
am a failure ! Let's leave this one at one sentence , nothing
more to be said here.
After realizing , ( and the date of the project is here ) that
there is no way I can finish , I accept that no one is perfect .
Life is too short and we will try to do better next time .
Sounds Familiar ?
Have a Blessed day everyone .
All five are applicable to romance , health issues , work
relations , children and even marriage . We can go on and
the list would be endless . `
So , how does it all relate to me ? Well , at first , I believe I
can do it all . It just requires a little organizational skill ,
another word for it , denial .
Then I become angry , because I have to do everything and
no one helps me . If everyone would just do their part , I
wouldn't be so behind .
Which leads to my bargaining with God . Maybe the lights
will go out at work and we will be sent home and I can finish
this on time . Or maybe God will see that I'm tired and it will
be a very slow day at work and I can come home early . What
do you think God ?
None of the above works , so I become depressed , because I
am a failure ! Let's leave this one at one sentence , nothing
more to be said here.
After realizing , ( and the date of the project is here ) that
there is no way I can finish , I accept that no one is perfect .
Life is too short and we will try to do better next time .
Sounds Familiar ?
Have a Blessed day everyone .
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