Lean On Me

People seem to confide in me, but that's because I believe I'm a good listener and I'm good at keeping things to myself. I didn't always know that I had this trait within me. Or maybe I didn't acquire it until now.

I find that people are looking for someone to hear them out without any judgment. Majority of people don't need advice or if they do and things don't work out, you're the one who gets the blame.

No, it's better to just listen.

Since I've always been the listener, it's difficult for me to speak out loud of my emotions. I tend to carry it all inside. As unbelievable as this may sound, even here on the written page I don't confess all.

Alas, there are always people who are suffering. Each one of us has a go at a trial or storm of our own. Where do we go for comfort? Well, to the one who will offer an understanding shoulder to cry on.

Recently, I've come across a list of how we can offer that comfort to someone in need of it. I'd like to share it with you. Of course, it's Dr. Charles Stanley. I hope this not only helps the person looking for comfort, but the one who provides it.

Practical Ways to Bear Burdens

1 Thessalonians 5:14

There are hurting people everywhere, but at times we just don't know what to say or do to ease their pain. Here are six practical ways to bear someone else's burden.

1. Be there. At times the best "method" of helping is simply to be present. During our darkest hours, we don't need someone who tries in vain to fix everything; we just need a friend.
2. Listen. Don't attempt to give answers or tell people what to do next. Injured souls frequently want simply a listening ear so they can express what's on their mind.
3. Share. Never parade yourself as someone who has all the answers. Instead, allow your own pain and failures to help others.
4. Pray. There is power in speaking people's names before the Lord. When they hear someone talk to Jesus on their behalf, healing often starts taking place.
5. Give. Sometimes helping others involves more than a handshake or warm hug. Maybe they need something financial or material. One of the best measures of sincerity is how much we're willing to give to others.
6. Substitute.You may know an individual who bears the burden of caring for someone else. If you step in and take his or her place for a while, you are emulating your Savior--He, too, was a substitute.

Dr. Charles Stanley

Have a blessed day everyone.